I read A World Without Complaining
"The World Without Complaining" is the greatest and most respected spiritual mentor in the United States, Will Bowen's work, which is a global 500 enterprises group purchase rate ranked first, and the United States, Taiwan bestseller list number one great spiritual inspirational book. The book was voted "The most important book that affects your life" by Time Magazine and The New York Times in conjunction with NBC Television, second only to the influence of the Bible on human beings. Through approachable life stories and heart-warming advice, the author explores step by step why we complain, how it ruins our lives, and how we can banish this destructive expression. At the heart of the book is the idea that anyone and a team can succeed, and what it takes to solve it.
Through reading this book, I saw my real and potential side and my own weaknesses, which enabled me to better examine myself and try to change myself. Learn to be grateful, grateful to those who have helped me, grateful to those who have hurt me, grateful to everything around me silently accompanying me. Don't complain, because the essence of complaining is to express sadness, pain, or dissatisfaction, and to complain is to push away what you want and make it worse.
In daily life, I often use the ideas and concepts in the book to warn myself, and gradually I will reduce complaints until I do not complain, and at this time I deeply understand that complaining is an useless move to consume energy with the mouth. If you are still feeling unsatisfied, you can study the lives of successful people, and you will find that they did not succeed in spite of life's challenges. Instead of telling others how much you've been wronged, start looking for blessings in your challenges. In the same way, your attitude towards things is also the external expression of your inner thinking. Our life is a movie, it depends on how we play, and how well we play, whether we play well or not, we fill in the ending ourselves.
The book uses a bracelet to convey to us the idea of "complaining is better than changing." As soon as the person wearing the purple bracelet is aware of their complaining mood, they will change the bracelet to the other hand, and so on, until the bracelet has been on one hand for 21 consecutive days, 21 days without complaining or criticizing others, less than a year, you will slowly change. Of course, this is not a magic bracelet, but at this moment your mentality has changed.
In fact, each of us is creating our own life all the time, and the point is to really pull the REINS and lead the horse to where we want to go, not where we don't want to go.
Do not complain, calmly look at everything around, is the wealth of a person's life, and this wealth can only be captured by those who can withstand the wind and waves. Stop the whining nonsense! Brave to meet challenges, with a positive attitude to face, and success is often favored by positive people.