Tired of running for the so-called goal, tired of going back and forth in the field of social fame and fortune, what we really need, perhaps, is to settle down, sit in the dull calm time, enjoy a long time of solitude.

The real loneliness is not the emptiness and loneliness of the soul and communication, but a real freedom and precipitation, which can make you really quiet and free. In the enjoyment of loneliness in the eyes of others, in the huge world, it seems that only one person, listening to the quiet flow of time, the heart of the ordinary good.

I remember reading Thoreau's Walden in high school, when I was struggling with my studies, and I was fascinated by the state of life described by the author. I yearn for myself to be able to quietly lie on the boat in the lake in the cool afternoon day, watching the blue sky and white clouds, listening to the birds and the wind singing, any time slowly flowing away is not a pity, so lonely and quiet life, even if only one day, or one afternoon.

When a man has a goal he desperately wants to achieve, he tends to forget loneliness. Goals often make people become fanatical, also have no time to care about others, but what people are pursuing is not what they really want, even if they really want, in the process of pursuing often because of impatience and lose too much. In fact, the process of pursuing goals should also be happy, in your heart for the goal and tired cry, but also learn to temporarily stop the pace of running, this is not a waste of time, but in order to better start, or find more beautiful scenery after turning around.

In this colorful world, each of us is afraid of snubbing ourselves, so we try our best to please the world, become a versatile person, become knowledgeable about the world, but also gradually lost themselves. Fame and wealth of all kinds, stirring people, corroding the soul, in order to get more, we live too tired, but also lose more, it is better to let the restless heart temporarily calm down, give yourself a chance to be lonely, listen to their own every heartbeat in loneliness, quietly enjoy loneliness.

Enjoying loneliness may only need a chair, a book, a free afternoon, and a precipitated heart, but some people live so empty, but it is difficult to precipitate themselves to enjoy loneliness.

Some people do nothing all day to play games and brush the circle of friends, so hot in the virtual world, but in real life than anyone else lonely; Some people sweat and cry for the trivialities of life during the day, but at night can only face the scraps alone; Some people pretend to smile in the social arena, and people call each other brothers, turn around, but have nowhere to tell......

We should not be idle, wasted time, nor should we force ourselves too much for the excitement of the surface of life, everyone has lonely time and capital, but most of the time we are not willing to give ourselves a chance to enjoy loneliness, not willing to calm down and see themselves.

In fact, there is no so-called name and title in people's life, but they are later imposed by the outside world or their own broken head to fight for, but the world is too noisy and complicated, in the pursuit of vanity in the process, we are easy to forget the most simple of their own.

Loneliness is a mirror, it can reflect the simple self without a name and title, that oneself does not need to be nervous about foreign affairs, just need to quietly enjoy their own freedom and leisure, enjoy this hard-won loneliness and quiet.

The heart is hot and restless, the time is cold and indifferent, on the busy journey of life, you and I need to learn to enjoy loneliness in time, in order to find a different kind of beautiful life.